I can’t believe we are already well into January and 2016 already! With our sweet little gummy bear arriving in a few short weeks my To Do List is longer than ever BUT I am making progress and checking things off the list. Woo Hoo. So far 2016 has been AMAZING for our family!
I know 2016 is going to bring quite a bit of change for our family and therefore my “One-and-Only” New Years Resolution this year is “To have a Year of NO EXPECTATIONS!” My life is about to change is ways that I can’t even imagine. I am still struggling a bit to wrap my head around the fact that we are having a BABY! I don’t know what that is going to feel like and instead of building up the whole experience and setting myself up for failure by trying to be “the perfect mother HAHA,” I am just going to roll with it and take every moment and experience on a day-to-day basis.
This is not to say that I am NOT doing my best to prepare in every way possible, but when it comes to actually being a parent I have some general guidelines that I would like to follow but not much else. I know for the first few months the baby is going to be just that…a baby…and they sort of set the tone for how the hours and days will pass. We have some ideas for how we would like our Labor and Delivery to go, in a “general” sense and we are planning on breastfeeding and doing some sleep training techniques with the baby. But I know several moms that have tried to control the outcome of these things and ended up being extremely disappointed in the whole experience of having a newborn for the first few weeks. I know it is going to be hard and exhausting but I really want to look back on the first few weeks and let it be whatever it is meant to be. Therefore NO EXPECTATIONS…within reason of course… for this Mommy-To-Be.
On a completely different note the last day of 2015 was SPECTACULAR!!! We celebrated New Years Eve and my 28th Birthday and everything about the whole day was perfect! We woke up to a gorgeous and frosty morning. The fog was thick and the sunshine was peaking through the houses! IT WAS BEAUTIFUL!!!! The perfect start to the morning.
My sweet husband made me my favorite breakfast complete with coffee and roses! It was so special and thoughtful.
We had lunch with my Mom and Step-Dad which was so special and took our puppies out to the river to run wild and play. It was exactly how I wanted to spend my day…surrounded by my favorite people and fur babies! The snow was gorgeous and the sun was bright. It was freakin’ freezing but we had a blast and it was so much FUN!!!!
We watched the sunset over the snow and then headed out to do some Birthday shopping for ME!!!! Because D-Day (delivery day) is right around the corner I really wanted to get some basics that I know probably won’t be high on my priority list in the coming months. So on my list this year…my super expensive and amazing face wash and moisturizer. I still need to keep up appearances post-baby. I refuse to be one of those moms who “lets herself go” once the baby arrives. But again, no expectations, so i’m gonna just roll with it and see what happens. But my general goal is to still feel somewhat put together on a regular basis. I was also completely spoiled with my favorite Juicy Couture Perfume, a gorgeous Kate Spade watch which i’m just drooling over, and the best ever MamaRoo Rocker & Bouncer with an Infant Insert. I am so excited to start busting out the baby goodies we got and figure out how they work. YIPPPPEEEEEE!
Overall it was the perfect way to round out 2015 and ring in the New Year! I am so excited for all the blessings and challenges that 2016 will bring…I can’t wait to “feel” what being a mommy is going to be like! I definitely feel pregnant, but not really like a mommy! We ended 2015 curled in bed with our puppies and kitties, had a mini-Office marathon and were both asleep by 10:3oish.
And just like that, goodbye 2015, hello 2016, and time for everything “baby” related to kick into high gear for this mommy!
xo xo friends,